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It's OUR story

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The more I thought about "My" story, I realized it's his story too. Whether he is able to admit it, own it, man up, is a whole nother tale.  Narcissists are good story tellers. They are really good at getting people to pity them. Sometimes the things in my head that he's told people about me, haunts me. I use to be someone that wanted the truth to be known. I'd fight for it. Go to any length to make sure it was told. But as I've gotten older and certainly from all that I've experienced, I've realized that the only person who needs the truth is ME. I lived in a lie for so long that being free from it is all that matters. Not what others think. Not what others have heard. I KNOW the truth. He KNOWS the truth. And honestly if others want to believe the lies he continues to tell, that's their agony. I don't live there anymore and THAT is MY story.  You get to a point where you realize that every single person that "believes" t...