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A letter to her...

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Hey girl... it's me... the ex. The one you're being told is crazy. I'm not afraid to admit I was. Someday you will be too. He will make you crazy. He will tell people you're crazy. And they'll believe him. Just like you do now.  I heard he's telling you he loves you. Isn't it magical? All the love bombing and telling you, you're the one. People will say I don't know you at all but in reality,  I know enough to see you where I once stood.  You put up with the 10 second sex because he tells you it's because you turn him on so much and he can't help it. He'll tell you that for years to come if your dumb enough to stay.  Please don't use the excuse,  "well, you stayed so you must be dumb too". I was married to him. I had children with him. We ran a business together. I FELT OBLIGATED TO STAY!  So, what is it that keeps you there? It can't be the morning tongue being shoved down your throat. Or the smell/taste of ...