Their own demise is guaranteed...


From December 20022
Typical narcissistic trait. His narcissistic friend is threatening to take all the lies and have me arrested. That's the depth of their sickness. They believe they can make a lie into a truth and everyone will believe them.  
Sadly, a lot of times they succeed with this. But only with people as stupid as they are. That's why you have to just leave them to their own demise. They WILL eventually suffer at their own hands. Don't try to save them. Don't try to save their victims. You had to learn the hard way. It's their turn. 
























































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