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One day out of nowhere, I was totally discarded. Even though I had no desire to return to the abuse, but the cut off and the way he did it... STUNG! Or maybe it was the build up before the discard?  Literally a week before his decision he was telling me we belonged together. That we were made for eachother.  "We've been through so much and I just want to prove everyone wrong".   So why wasn't I falling for it? Maybe it was the constant video calling to see where I was. The showing up unannounced and coming through my door like he was going to catch me doing something. Or the morning phone calls on my way in to work that completely ruined my mood. I was so sick of hearing,  "I know you're effing someone" when he had clear evidence that I was home EVERY night. Video background doesn't lie.  It wasn't until a few days after the discard that I learned about her. The girl feeding his ego. The girl he was all of the sudden involved with.  A...