It's not revenge, it's karma!

I have everything I need to destroy him. Problem is, he's too good at playing a victim. Has a back story for everything. An excuse to excuse his behavior, his actions, his choices. 

He's already convinced this great guy he works with to start a business with him. The same kind of business we had together. He just needed someone smart enough to take the test and get the license. 
This guy is going to be the biggest investor. B has convinced A that they are going to be rich. Don't get me wrong, B has the ability to make it happen. Don't all liars make the best salesmen? 
A has a family. He's a Godly man. B is using this as a lure. Playing the "great Dad" who was an incredible "family man" and wants what's best for A and his family. 
So what's the evidence? What could I possibly have that could put doubt in A's mind. 
Court documents. A lawsuit. B moved here not to be closer to his kids. He ran from a company he stole $76,000 from. I only found out about it because I was served the papers. When we divorced, B was given the business and everything that came with it. There was no debt. But there was also no me. He was told to remove my name from it. But that would mean canceling licensed and his ability to get permits in certain cities. So what he did was let other companies use my license to work under. And he got a cut of the job. 
Seems there was a BIG job he went after when he built enough confidence of not getting caught with committing fraud. The $76,000 was a deposit for materials and start up fees... that never happened. THIS is the reason he can't return to CO. THIS is why he can never have a business in his name again.  
I had to prove my disconnect from the business with our divorce papers so they wouldn't come after me. B got a hold of an attorney that told him to file bankruptcy. Which he did. And believes to this day it relieved him of the wrong. B also has a FB friend he use to race with that B took $14,000 from the friends girlfriend and never did her roof. M stayed his FB friend to follow him. Calling him out every time B posted a new toy or anything of value. Reminding him what he did. B never deleted the friendship cause he's that stupid. The more friends it looks like he has, the more it looks like he's "liked". 
I'm going to share this info with A. I still have the court documents. Not for any other reason than wanting to save A's family. It WILL happen again. A money hungry person doesnt care who or what they destroy to line their pockets. He needs the money. He buys people's love. It's the ONLY way he can keep them around. It's the only reason they stay.  

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